- Arranges press announcements
- Compiles the guest list in consultation with the groom’s family
- Sends out invitations and keeps a note of replies
- Looks after gift list and makes arrangements to display the presents
- Makes a list of the guests for the ushers
- In the absence of the bride’s father she may give the bride away
- Attends the signing of the register
- Unless bride and groom decide otherwise, acts as hostess on the day
- Leaves the church on the arm of the groom’s father
- The first in the receiving line
- Sends cake to those unable to attend the wedding
But remember: these are only the traditional wedding roles! If you want to change them, go ahead!



